When I was 13 years old I was watching TV. The magician David Blaine was about to perform magic to strangers on the street. What he did flew my mind. He asked a couple on strangers to open a brand new deck of cards, the spectator selected a random card. The card was the 4 of spades. David grabbed the card, and very slowly he made the suits in the 4 of Spades move positions. The spectators lost their minds. David moved all 4 of spades into the corner of the card.
When I saw that my mind was blown, that's when I decided I wanted to learn how to do magic with a deck of card. For a lot of 13 year olds magic is a hobby that lasts a couple of months. For me it became a true obsession and a passion. Magic is a hobby I've practiced and loved for over 10 years now.
Here's a video I made showing some stuff after years of practice:
What magic taught me
What I learned from magic is that simplicity takes a long time to master. That trick by David Blaine looked so simple. He performed that trick in under 2 minutes. However I wasn't aware of how many hours, days, months or even years of practice it takes to deliver that 2 minute performance. When I started learning close-up magic I realized that simplicity is expensive.
Simplicity is expensive
Simplicity costs a lot of time and effort. In order to master a skill and make it look "easy" we must spend countless hours of practice, failure and frustration.
Failure over and over
Close-up magic taught me this the hard way. when I was 14, I remember practicing some "simple" trick for a couple of minutes. Then by the time I tried to show the trick to my younger brother, my hands were shaking I was nervous, so I messed up the trick. I made a fool of myself and my brother made fun of me. As a 14 year old I was so frustrated, thankfully I was persistent. I realized that the next trick will take hours of practice rather than minutes.
Practice, practice and more failure
This time I dedicated a few hours of practice in front of the mirror, then I showed it to my brother. This time I didn't mess it up, but he discovered how I did the trick. I was so annoyed at this, I realized each new trick would take me weeks to master rather than minutes or hours. Turns out that my brother was too freaking good at discovering the methods behind my tricks, the silver lining was that he was pushing me to be better.
Improvement at last
As the years passed I got better, by the time I was 17 I was able to perform tricks to adults. By the time I was 19, I got paid a couple of times to do magic tricks in restaurants and events. The apparent "simplicity" of the tricks I learned took me years to learn.
The unexpected journey
My love for magic took me on a crazy life path, I loved the unique type of emotion that magic awakes in people. This love for the "impossible" lead me to become interested in VFX (Visual Effects) Thanks to my amazing parents I got my first laptop, I learned how to edit and started making random YouTube videos in 2011.
As I got better I learned to do things like this:
My love for magic and VFX transitioned into a love for film-making and story telling. I decided I'd go to film school (that's a story for another day). As I grew up I discovered I wasn't a specialist. I didn't want to focus on just one hobby, passion or career. I wanted to do it all. For years this way of being gave me an identify crisis, until I finally decided to make a personal philosophy out of it and I called it:
My journey took me towards this list of passions:
Street Magic / Close-up Magic
Task Management systems
Vim addict (keyboard shortcuts)
English (second language)
Italian (third language)
Latin (classical pronunciation)
Stenography (alternative typing method)
With every skill I acquired through the years I discovered the following:
- Simplicity is the ultimate goal
- Curiosity is everything
- Identity is a choice
- Failure is essential
Simplicity is the ultimate goal, but the journey towards it is not easy. Failure is the natural path towards any form of mastery. The fear of failure is a desease that we must learn to avoid. Following my curiosity lead me towards so an unexpected live path that I'm so grateful for.
I hope you enjoyed this little story, here's your homework, reflect on this question:
How is the fear of failure holding me back?
Write a 2000 word essay reflecting on that question. Due date is by the end of next week
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